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Looking for mature friends. The language has a sentence structure loosely based on Urdu and a unique vocabulary of at least a thousand words. Beyond the Urdu-Hindi speaking areas of subcontinent the vocabulary is still used by the hijra community within their own native languages.
In , transgender people in Pakistan were given their first opportunity to stand for election. The governments of both India  and Pakistan  have recognized hijras as a "third sex", thus granting them the basic civil rights of every citizen. In India, hijras now have the option to identify as a eunuch "E" on passports and on certain government documents.
They are not, however, fully accommodated; in order to vote, for example, citizens must identify as either male or female. There is also further discrimination from the government. In the general election, India's election committee denied three hijras candidature unless they identified themselves as either male or female. In April , Justice KS Radhakrishnan declared transgender to be the third gender in Indian law, in a case brought by the National Legal Services Authority Nalsa against Union of India and others.
Our society often ridicules and abuses the Transgender community and in public places like railway stations, bus stands, schools, workplaces, malls, theatres, hospitals, they are sidelined and treated as untouchables, forgetting the fact that the moral failure lies in the society's unwillingness to contain or embrace different gender identities and expressions, a mindset which we have to change. Justice Radhakrishnan said that transgender people should be treated consistently with other minorities under the law, enabling them to access jobs, healthcare and education.
Hijras, Eunuchs, apart from binary gender, be treated as "third gender" for the purpose of safeguarding their rights under Part III of our Constitution and the laws made by the Parliament and the State Legislature. Transgender persons' right to decide their self-identified gender is also upheld and the Centre and State Governments are directed to grant legal recognition of their gender identity such as male, female or as third gender.
The ancient Kama Sutra mentions the performance of fellatio by feminine people of a third sex tritiya prakriti. During the era of the British Raj, authorities attempted to eradicate hijras, whom they saw as "a breach of public decency. Also during British rule in India they were placed under the Criminal Tribes Act and labelled a "criminal tribe," hence subjected to compulsory registration, strict monitoring and stigmatized for a long time; after independence however they were denotified in , though the centuries-old stigma continues.
The Indian transgender hijras or Aravanis ritually marry the Hindu god Aravan and then mourn his ritual death seen in an day festival in Koovagam, India. Many practice a form of syncretism that draws on multiple religions; seeing themselves to be neither men nor women, hijras practice rituals for both men and women.
Hijras belong to a special caste. They are usually devotees of the mother goddess Bahuchara Mata, Lord Shiva, or both. Bahuchara Mata is a Hindu goddess with two unrelated stories both associated with transgender behavior. One story is that she appeared in the avatar of a princess who castrated her husband because he would run in the woods and act like a woman rather than have sex with her.
Another story is that a man tried to rape her, so she cursed him with impotence. When the man begged her forgiveness to have the curse removed, she relented only after he agreed to run in the woods and act like a woman.
The primary temple to this goddess is located in Gujarat and it is a place of pilgrimage for hijras, who see Bahucahara Mata as a patroness. One of the forms of Lord Shiva is a merging with Parvati where together they are Ardhanari, a god that is half Shiva and Half Parvati. Ardhanari has special significance as a patron of hijras, who identify with the gender ambiguity. In some versions of the Ramayana, when Rama leaves Ayodhya for his year exile, a crowd of his subjects follow him into the forest because of their devotion to him.
Soon Rama notices this, and gathers them to tell them not to mourn, and that all the "men and women" of his kingdom should return to their places in Ayodhya.
Rama then leaves and has adventures for 14 years. When he returns to Ayodhya, he finds that the hijras, being neither men nor women, have not moved from the place where he gave his speech. Impressed with their devotion, Rama grants hijras the boon to confer blessings on people during auspicious inaugural occasions like childbirth and weddings. This boon is the origin of badhai in which hijras sing, dance, and give blessings. Mahabharata includes an episode in which Arjun, a hero of the epic, is sent into an exile.
There he assumes an identity of a eunuch-transvestite and performs rituals during weddings and childbirths that are now performed by hijras. In the Mahabharata, before the Kurukshetra War, Iravan offers his lifeblood to goddess Kali to ensure the victory of the Pandavas, and Kali agrees to grant him power.
On the night before the battle, Iravan expresses a desire to get married before he dies. No woman was willing to marry a man doomed to die in a few hours, so Arjuna as Brihinala marries him.
In South India, hijras claim Iravan as their progenitor and call themselves "aravanis. They dress as women still retaining their masculine features and sing in praise of Lord Krishna,". In the ancient times, even religion has its own way of accepting these fringe communities. The peculiar clap is one such". Each year in Tamil Nadu, during April and May, hijras celebrate an eighteen-day religious festival.
The aravani temple is located in the village Koovagam in the Ulundurpet taluk in Villupuram district, and is devoted to the deity Koothandavar, who is identified with Aravan. During the festival, the aravanis reenact a story of the wedding of Lord Krishna and Lord Aravan, followed by Aravan's subsequent sacrifice. They then mourn Aravan's death through ritualistic dances and by breaking their bangles.
An annual beauty pageant is also held, as well as various health and HIV or AIDS seminars. Hijras from all over the country travel to this festival. A personal experience of the hijras in this festival is shown in the BBC Three documentary India's Ladyboys and also in the National Geographic Channel television series Taboo. There is evidence that Indian hijras identifying as Muslim also incorporate aspects of Hinduism.
Still, despite this syncretism, Reddy notes that a hijra does not practice Islam differently from other Muslims and argues that their syncretism does not make them any less Muslim. Reddy also documents an example of how this syncretism manifests: in Hyderabad, India a group of Muslim converts were circumcised, something seen as the quintessential marker of male Muslim identity.
The film Common Gender relates the story of the Bangladesh hijra and their struggle for survival. Hijras have been portrayed on screen in Indian cinema since its inception, historically as comic relief. A notable turning point occurred in when real hijras appeared during a song-and-dance sequence in Kunwaara Baap "The Unmarried Father". There are also hijras in the Hindi movie Amar Akbar Anthony who accompany one of the heroes, Akbar Rishi Kapoor , in a song entitled "Tayyab Ali Pyar Ka Dushman" "Tayyab Ali, the Enemy of Love".
One of the first sympathetic hijra portrayals was in Mani Ratnam's Bombay Pooja Bhatt produced and also starred in the movie, with her father Mahesh Bhatt co-writing and directing. Deepa Mehta's Water features the hijra character "Gulabi" played by Raghubir Yadav , who has taken to introducing the downtrodden, outcast widows of Varanasi to prostitution.
Not surprisingly, perhaps, the film generated much controversy. In Sadak, the brothel-owning character was played by Sadashiv Amrapurkar under the name "Maharani". In , a fiction feature film titled Shabnam Mausi was made on the life of a eunuch politician Shabnam Mausi. It was directed by Yogesh Bharadwaj and the title role played by Ashutosh Rana. Jogwa, a Marathi film, depicts the story of a man forced to be hijra under certain circumstances. The movie has received several accolades.
In Soorma Bhopali, Jagdeep encounters a troupe of hijra on his arrival in Bombay. The leader of this pack is also played by Jagdeep himself. One of the main characters in Khushwant Singh's novel Delhi, Bhagmati is a hijra. She makes a living as a semi-prostitute and is wanted in the diplomatic circles of the city. Vijay TV's Ippadikku Rose, a Tamil show conducted by postgraduate educated transgender woman Rose is a very successfully running program that discusses various issues faced by youth in Tamil Nadu, where she also gives her own experiences.
In addition to numerous other themes, the movie Welcome to Sajjanpur by Shyam Benegal explores the role of hijras in Indian society. In the Malayalam movie Ardhanaari, released on 23 November , director Santhosh Sowparnika tries to depict the life of a transgender person. Manoj K Jayan, Thilakan, Sukumari and Maniyanpilla Raju perform leading roles. In August, , a music video featuring 7 hijras dressed in outfits or uniforms of various professions and singing the National Anthem of India created by a YouTube channel Yathartha Pictures went viral for being the first National Anthem video sung by hijras in India.
Vaadamalli by novelist Su. Samuthiram is the first Tamil novel about Aravaani community in Tamil Nadu, published in Later transgender activist A. Revathi is part of the syllabus for Final Year students of The American College in Madurai. Later Naan Saravanan Alla" and Vidya's "I am Vidya" became first transwoman autobiography. The film Immaculate Conception by Jamil Dehlavi is based upon the culture-clash between a western Jewish couple seeking fertility at a Karachi shrine known to be blessed by a Sufi fakir called 'Gulab Shah' and the group of Pakistani eunuchs who guard it.
Murad which means desire; the English title was Eunuch's Motherhood , was an award winning biographical Telefilm drama made by Evergreen Media Europe for Pakistan's television channel Indus TV that aired in The cast had the country's top male television actors playing "hijras": Sohail Asghar, Nabeel, Qazi Wajid, Kamran Jilani. It was directed by Kamran Qureshi, written by Zafar Mairaj and produced by Iram Qureshi. It won both Best TeleFilm and Best Director awards at Indus Telefilm Festival.
She has sent him away to live at a hostel so she can earn a living as a dancer, after her son gets cross with her, due to teasing verbal and sexual they face while dancing. This was the first time that influential male actors came out to support "hijra" rights during interviews; noting that in Pakistani English at that time eunuch was the term to describe a transgender person, and "khwaja sara" also khwaja sira had not yet replaced what is now considered a derogatory term due to decades of heckling and name calling, "hijra".
In , Kamran Qureshi directed a trans drama, Moorat "effigy," however, the English title was Eunuch's Wedding. The story involves a young lady who is arranged to marry. It turns out her husband is transgender. The story unfolds trans community and their deprived and isolated world.
It portrays eloquently how they, too, are not far away from the human emotions and feelings and their world not much different from the heterosexual community. Even though they are in plain sight, they are tthey are taboo subjects and are not taken seriously. This makes them suffer endlessly in silence wrapped in slurs. The episode series therefore touches on transgender abuse, women abuse, poverty, immorality of arranged marriages, and child abuse.
It concerns a patriarch, Hakim, who is a misogynist, a domestic abuser, a bigot, and a zealot who forces religion on his family. They face financial difficulties due to Hakim wanting a son. He rejects his transgender daughter, Saifi, as he wanted an heir and she identifies as a girl. Saifi is deeply loved by the rest of her family. However, her oldest sister intervenes and teaches Saifi about what kind of touching is inappropriate.
As Saifi grows older, she is not allowed to leave the house. She finds her sister's dresses compelling and tries them on, revealing her gender identity. A neighbour played by famous South Asian singer Atif Aslam, who is in love with one of the sisters, gets Saifi a job at a place where they paint trucks, with the blessing of Saifi's sisters and mother. Saifi dresses like a boy; however, other boys sense her lack of self-esteem and eventually gang-rape her.
She is saved when another transgender person, played by Almas Bobby a transgender actor , finds her and takes her home. Hakim overhears Saifi telling her mother and Zainab what happened. When everybody is asleep, Hakim locks the room and suffocates his child for luring the men for the "shame" he would have to bear if the story got out. The novel Bombay Ice by Leslie Forbes features an important subplot involving the main character's investigation of the deaths of several hijra sex-workers.
In the TV comedy Outsourced , a hijra is hired by Charlie as a stripper for Rajiv's "bachelor party", much to Rajiv's utter horror. This film is set to be released on 1 May. FLAWZ Magazine has just released it's sixth issue!
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At the open house, for example, the president of the HOA was there, who had to know for legal reasons, as were a couple of people from the cul-de-sac, who also know. I am quite sure that they were eager to share the information to the other 30 or so people there.
So the challenge for me as a transwoman in has shifted--from getting the public to see me as a woman, to getting the public to TREAT me as a woman, EVEN THOUGH they may know my birth gender I know that they know that I know that they know.
In practice, I haven't really changed my behavior much from the old days. The awareness, however, that so many people now "know" does, I think, help to keep me from falling back into old male habits.
I have made some genuine cis-female friends. They tell me. Skinny jeans and boots are practically the uniform for a casual look hereabouts, so it pays to follow the trend particularly when mingling with large crowds.
I don't see why I cannot choose a dressy top, however. This is me returning from a show in the Edinburgh Fringe. If anyone thought I was out of place, they did not show it. One bizarre moment surprised me. After the show we all filed out and I looked for the bar - purely to meet the cast, you understand. I must have appeared lost because the woman behind me, the one I had been sitting beside for over an hour, asked "Are you looking for the ladies?
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A few years ago, before I started posting my own pictures, I wrote to a few prominent CDs and transwomen on Flickr to see if they'd be interested in participating in a posing challenge. Basically, I would post an iconic pose from a fashion magazine and invite Flickrettes to post their own versions of it. That went over like a lead balloon. Alex and I were attending a Christmas Soiree for transwomen at a hotel just off the DC Beltway. Dozens of ladies were there - all dressed up pretty.
It was my first meeting with this group. Because I did not know anyone, I was super nervous. My little snow bear friend would be good company if no one else was, I figured. Alex discovered me hanging in the shadows. I did not want to draw too much attention to myself. Alex understood and sat with me for a good while - I was very pleased and comforted by Alex's encouragement.
This snapshot was taken by another Flickr icon - Kacey CD while Alex and I were together that evening. Only recently has this image been brought to my attention - so I'm posting it here and now. It's long overdue. It's just another example of how Flickr has brought me together with others who are now friends IRL.
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